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|Subject: understanding eachother Sun Oct 19, 2008 4:16 am|| |
Understanding between individuals is a basic requirement in any relationship. For people in love, it becomes even more important as it forms a major chunk in the relationship.
Understanding could be achieved by both the individuals by developing trust, appreciation and patience for the other partner. A few other ways could be:
Making you partner feel important
Most of the times, people are buried in tensions and responsibilities that they take their relationship for granted. In the process sometimes one person feels a sense of neglect. To avoid such situations, you could make your partner realize his/her importance everyday by addressing small things such as:
Complimenting your partner. For example "Wow did you lose weight?"
Letting him/ her take the initiative in certain chores of the house
Asking their opinion in matters which might be of importance to both Conceding at times
You are probably right."
This statement can bury many a battles even before they begin. Most of the times, people in a relationship try to hold their side of the arguments to exercise their dominance in the relationship. This does not help too much as there remain a few feelings which keep smoldering for a long time. This allows you to appease her and still leave yourself an out if she is completely off base. So, by acceding on a few occasions you can actually win the respect of your partner apart from weathering a threat to your relationship!
"I was wrong."
Generally men hate to say this. Many times they could be right for what they argue but it is observed that women have a certain bent of mind which makes them think they are right So save yourself some grief and apologize now so you can get moving in your relationship! Keeping the spark alive in your relationship
Along with understanding it is important that the element of boredom is kept out a relationship. It could be dine by paying attention to little details which your partner likes generally. This enhances the degree of understanding between the two partners too!
If this is not done, then a sense of monotony sets in which could endanger the relationship. To avoid such a scenario, you could do little important things such as:
Remembering your first date
Taking your partner to his /her favorite hangout place occasionally
Savor moments which are priceless to both the individuals in a relationship
Developing a sense of trust
This is one element which becomes more and more important in a relationship as time goes by. It also forms one of the cornerstones when it comes to understanding between two individuals. One must look to respect the decisions of the other partner and make the person feel that he /she is an integral part of the whole process. This develops and generates respect between the two individuals
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